Girls Girls Girls...Drama Drama Drama

This will be a longer blog but I knew I would eventually have to write it..lol. It is really funny when you get so many girls in one place and expect them all to get along. It cracks me up because it would only be a matter of time before drama broke out. Questions turn into rants, answers turn into bashing which turns into  hurt feelings and name calling....COME ON!!!! How old are we? I know some of you are just out of high school but you felt you were old enough to get married and have kids now act like adults. Now hold one second before anyone gets up in arms I am speaking to the older wives as well. You older wives need to chill out. Some times we forget what it is like to be young and in love and confused. There is no need for all this bashing and drama when all that happened was a simple question or a simple rant. If we cannot rant to the people who are going through the same thing as the person asking the question then who can we rant too? I know civilians do not really understand the military life but we do.

So here is what I think should happen. First we need to clear the air and set some ground rules. There does not need to be any tension whatsoever between anyone and if there is PM them. No need to put all of your shit with another person out in the open. That just forms more issues which leads to unnecessary headaches for the rest of us. Second try to be helpful. Regardless of your time with your sailor or if you grew up in the military we all have experience to share with one another. So share it without sarcasm or issue. We all can learn from one another. Lastly, please keep your personal problems that do not involve other people (like cheating, sex ect) off the pages and off facebook. If you do not want drama or remarks that are not very nice do not put your shit out there. First off you don't know who most of us are and you don't know people we know...so if you mention someones name that we happened to know or your mean to someone we like we will be upset and will lash out. Sadly some of these women are all we have for now.

So please just think before you write anything that is going to be public. Stop and wonder if what you are about to write it helpful or hurtful, personal or nonpersonal, damaging or not. It is really important that we are all here for each other regardless of where we come from, who we are and what we believe. I am in no way saying we should all be friends but I am saying we should at least try to be nice to one another whether we like what they have to say or not.